PG, You asked: "Any thoughts to what I said?" - It's tough trying to understand anyone's situation especially yours with short messages like these. You made the comment:"He had made a copy of it on his pc and typed out the words to her, ended it with an "I love you with all my heart" -I don't know if he's let go but if it were me I'd make the same mistake. Once I dismiss something its gone from me regradless if I left it on the pc. Pardon my ignorance but remember, I'm from the "Ready, Fire!,Aim" persuasion. Have you two visited a counselor? Many of your feelings seem to be my W's feelings and if I can see how you handle them I might better help my W. sounds to me that your H needs help. I don't know what help but maybe counseling might be a start. Maybe even the reading list e always route. Finally, I'd suggest more patience on your part and that's profound coming form me! good luck!
