Quote: I have to say, you nailed it. To me, Db'ing is about YOU. In the end you WILL be a better person whether or not you remain married. All of this is about you, changing you, and making yourself happy. That is where the success comes in.
This is just one thing you posted to me and there is more good stuff. You also said the fact that H came home is a big positive....but I always say it is easier to give advice to others than apply it to your own sitch. Your feelings are normal...hang in there, keep doing things for you, act as if. One of Michelle's chapters says to ask for what you want. I think that is a step that you need to take. I'm going to throw a wild guess out there and say that you probably know what you want, you are just afraid to ask because you are afraid at this point that your H can't provide what you need. You need to give him the chance to prove himself before you make that decision for him. As far as the trust, that will take time, can't help you with that one but don't rush it!
