Hi Penn---I'm glad H and D are ok, I know that can be scary. I sometimes wonder what H would do if somthing serious or not so serious happened to me....
I'm am really happy for you and your H that you decided to re-commit to each other. I hope one day I am in that situation. I did a bad thing and now I feel horrible! Oh well---I know where that gets me...I just don't know what to do anymore.