Thanks Unsure! H is doing better today. He had a beautiful boquet of roses and tulips delivered to me at work today. I work in the Microbiology lab at a local hospital and I am surprised they survived the day in there!! LOL
So, on with the plans for tonight. H is working right now so I have time to get everything together.
I hope your sitch is a little better today, if not then I atleast hope your PMA is up!!!
Have a good weekend. I will post the details of what happens tonight! Well.....not ALL the details
Well, I guess sometimes you can't plan on what life is going to throw your way. I was in the midst of getting everything ready for our night when H called. He had been in a hit and run car accident on the highway, with our daughter in his truck. They were brought to the hospital to be checked out. I am thankful they were both OK. The cops couldn't find the person that hit him.
So, after flying to the hospital and everything else, by the time it all settled here at home, it was late. I still went through with my plan. I had bought him a shirt and put the copy of the lawyer's letter in the pocket. I had the rings in my pocket. He had blown it earlier when he went searching for his wedding band and couldn't find it. He was panicking so I had to tell him that I had it. Long story short, even without the candles and wine, it was really nice. Some tears were shed, and our rings were put back on.
I have to say the best gift I got was that the two of them were OK after the accident. I couldn't have asked for anything more.
I am so glad that your family wasn't hurt. How scary.
It is really wonderful that you are both committed to making this work. Do you mind if I ask what was different when you two thought that the D was final. What differences can you see then compared to now as to why you two were able to reconnect?
You know, just trying to get some insight for my own situation.
I am happy for you Penn. I hope you have a great weekend.
As far as how the divorce affected us reconnecting, I can't say that it did. We started reconciling because we missed eachother, and because our feelings for one another resurfaced. More importantly, we were able to reconnect because we were both ready. We tried briefly once before, it only lasted two days, and it didn't work. I realize now that neither one of us were ready enough for it to happen. The news of the divorce not being final happened after we were back together. So, now it was affecting us because I hadn't made a decision. It made him question my commitment to him and my willingness to do what it takes to make this work.
Sorry, I know that probably doesn't really answer your question. If it doesn't, let me know and I can try and answer anything specific I didn't mention.
It sounds like it was just finding the right amount of time to be apart. I had thought that only after you found out the D wasn't final you got back together, so oh, okay.
Well I am really glad you the two of you are ready now and that you have a good start.
I did have another question, but my brain is not working so I can't remember it. If I think of it later, I bounce back. Talk to you soon.
Hi, I'm okay. I still have no idea what I was going to ask you. Oh well.
Anyway, H came over yesterday while I shopped with a friend and he stayed to watch a movie after S2 went to bed, his suggestion.
My big problem right now is sleep. I'm too stressed. I did see my doc last week, so I'm getting help, but last night I tried to sleep without anything and no luck. I'm dead tired today.
Hi Penn---I'm glad H and D are ok, I know that can be scary. I sometimes wonder what H would do if somthing serious or not so serious happened to me....
I'm am really happy for you and your H that you decided to re-commit to each other. I hope one day I am in that situation. I did a bad thing and now I feel horrible! Oh well---I know where that gets me...I just don't know what to do anymore.
If I think of it later, I bounce back. Talk to you soon.