Geneva and Unsure-

Thanks! The bubble bath was just so sweet. I forgot how loving and caring he can be. I missed that. I am happy to see it back.

I stopped at the store and looked for the perfect card for Friday and found it. It talks about how you start out in marriage with all these hopes and dreams, and life changes, there is good and there is bad, but no matter what, the love that I feel for him never changes. It was worded a lot better then that (it's in my car so I can't type it word for word) but it fits in with my plan so perfectly. H has always been one to put a lot of time into finding the perfect card. For his b-day and now for our anniversary, I did the same for him.

I was thinking about mentioning to him that this Friday is our anniversary. Not that he doesn't know, but to get his input on what he feels he wants to do. Does he want to celebrate? Does he want to do anything? I don't want to plan this if he doesn't feel like it's a good idea. I just thought that getting an idea of where he is can help me plan everything a little better.

And hmm........naked twister......heehee...already planned on that!!! That's what the wine is for!

Thanks also for the positive outlooks for me and my H. I feel good about this too. I have my doubtful moments, but for the most part I am feeling that we can do this. I also feel like a ton of weight has been lifted off my chest since I made my decision about the D.

Hope everyone is well tonight. If we hang in there we can all get through this. It took me over a year to get to here, but it can be done.