Geneva- Thanks for dropping by my thread. As far as the atmosphere goes....this Friday is our anniversary and that in and of itself is causing some tension. I think that the fact that I haven't made a decision makes it bitter sweet, as it could possibly be our last though we are still together. And yes, I am definitely still in shock that I am stilll married. Wasn't what I expected to hear from the lawyer at all. Although, I do believe that everything happens for a reason and there was a reason it never got finalized. Yup, LOL..that's me still over analyzing!! So all in all I would say that if I let it go through, H may be a little hostile towards me because he is hurt. If I stop it, he will be happier and want to work harder on making this work. Kind of answers my own questions here.
Unsure- anything is possible at this point. I think the main thing is that I haven't yet made a decision. I am sure he is thinking that if I wanted to stay married to him, I shouldn't have to think about it, I would want it.(I know I shouldn't be ASSuming anything) Oh, and btw...glad to read that "letting things happen naturally" worked out well for you
