Unsure......you pose some pretty good questions. To answer them honestly....yes, my H and M are more important then an investment.
If I don't get this property, or others, my future will be a little less "financially stable" when it is time to retire. These properties were for my retirement, and then to pass on to my kids.I don't think the future of my R would change whether I got them or not.Thankfully, money was never an issue with us. Not that we're rich, but we don't live an extravagent life either.
It isn't an easy decision, but I know it's one that only I can make. We are only a week and a day away from our anniversary. It would be nice to have a solid answer for myself (and him) before then.
Thanks again for stopping by. I do appreciate any input on my situation.