Penngirl---thanks for the visit to my thread, not many people post to me...guess I'm feeling sorry for myself today!
My initial reaction when I read your post about divorcing or not was that I wouldn't....of course I am not in your shoes and it is always easier as an outsider looking in. If I were you I would ask myself this question...
In the big picture what is more important??? Your H and your M? Or a monetary investment???
What will happen to your future if you don't get this property? What will the future of your R be if you do??
Just my 2cents...but my H would rather risk his life to make $$ in Iraq...if he dies at least his family will be financially secure?????
I know it's a tough decision and one that ultimately you have to make on your own.
