Hi everyone. I posted here a while ago, but my situation has changed since then. m-29 ex- 33 2 kids married- 10 years seperated- 1+ years (Ex had A) divorce- 5/2004 will be final 2/2005.
My ex and I are trying to put our marriage back together. So far, things are going good. He asked me if he could move back in with me and the kids, and I said he could. So, we are a family unit again. Communication is better then it has ever been. The problem is I am so insecure. I am constantly privately doubting his proclomations of love and happiness. I want to believe him, and sometimes I do. I do tell him when it is starting to be an issue, and we talk about it. He does his best to assure that this is what he wants and yes he still loves me.
Is this a normal part of the process? I have accepted and forgiven the mistakes in the marriage on both our parts, and so has he. I am trying to figure out a way to look for the positives in our day to day life to take the focus off the negative insecurity.
Has anyone else been through this? Is this normal? Is there a way to focus on the positive and try to move ahead?
