I got a chance to at least take a quick look at some of your older posts. I must say that you have been able to make some great things happen in a relatively short amount of time! You really have been doing an excellent job!
Now, go back and read through some of those older posts yourself, and see if you can find some things that you were doing different, some things that seemed to work for you, that you're not doing right now. What are some of the specific things you were doing, and in a lot of instances, "not" doing, that seemed to help draw her closer back to you? There are some key answers in there, you just need to look closely.
Look for some "old patterns" that you may be falling back into, that may have been things that didn't really work for you.
Also, as has been emphasized to you a few times on this thread, work on new memories and experiences for the two of you. That really does help in building the new stronger foundation, and leaves less room for the "yucky" stuff from the past.
JJ
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