Suzy, thanks for the good words. Read a little about your background, wish your husband could/would find a way to forgive and understand. Points for your courage and willingness to do what it would take. Seems out of your control now.
Sometimes think I gave my trust and forgiveness to willingly/easily. Wife doesn't seem to appreciate it or understand how big this really is for people in our situation.
Have to confess I am having my own WAS thought. I find I am planning exit strategies. Don't like it, can't seem to help it. Granted its only been 3 months since moving home, but I am just not getting/seeing what I need from the relationship. My wife is changing but not in the areas that would make me feel better about this marriage surviving.
Wonder if there is a part of me that isn't able to forgive her for the EA. Wonder if there is a part of her that can't forgive me for bad year in our marriage (even though I have changed).
Are we at the "Stick a fork in us, were done" stage? Boy where did all my determination, and resolve go?
