Frankly, I am in a very similar situation. My H had an EA from March - August 2004. It was a most stressful time, but we are on the mend now. My biggest issue is trust. I am working on it, but I can't seem to help checking his cell for OW number, and his email. I know I shouldn't, and I have decided to try not to.

Anyway, not sure what advice I can give except to have loads of patience. It's the only thing that got me through this - so far.


Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed.
D35,S/D twins28,D22
EA4/04 End? Who knows?
"Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim