kevin, I totally with Suit. I too have kept up with your posts and you have been on the W's backburner...these antics are typical of someone who has no idea what they want, but what they don't have sure looks a hell of alot better than what they do. This is a serious problem, my friend, and it is not fun to live with a person who have this problem. And the idea that they come back when you finally have enough and someone else comes in to the picture is hogwash. Been there, done that...I can assure you that 90% of these people draw you back for the wrong reasons...some won't agree, but I've seen it a million times with friends, etc., and it usually doesn't work. If this were the first, even second time for you, but it isn't and I really feel for you and your child. You have been easily manipulated in the past because you loved her...and she very well knows what strings to pull. The online thing is just such crap, kevin. And she gives into it over and over again. Step back and look at your sitch again. If you feel like you really have a chance, and if that is what you WANT, then you will need to watch how things go for a very long time. It is up to you...as Suit said, you deserve better, much better...whether it be with your W after major changes have been made and her sincerity it as clear as a bell or with someone in the future. There comes a time when we deserve to put ourselves and our children first.
