If she doesn't know you post here and started posting before your recent return, then at least you can see from her posts that she is being honest and sincere. She lays out the facts, doesn't evade her part in all this.
Isn't that a good start?
One thought - if you moved out, you could still work on bridge building, dating, taking the temperature over time, to see if your W is genuine in her desire to try and make things work. It would surely be a shame to throw away this chance after "going through the wringer" for three years. You must love this woman to go through that, and you have a child together.
Livnlearn
"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates
