I plan backing off starting tonight - I guess that I kind of knew that already - but just needed some other people's opinions. We have alot of commons interests and enjoy spending time together but I will try to give her more space in the evenings after we both get home from work. It seemed like everything was really progressing well until after the holidays - I guess my wife is still unsure and little confused with her feelings. She needs time and some space to sort them out for herself.