Thanks for your reply. We had a few talks this weekend and they didn't really go well for me. I am planner and right now it seems as though we don't have any sort of plan. During our talks this weekend she said that in her other relationships she has never been able to fall back in love with someone after the feeling is gone. She seems distant and cold at times. She knows that this is taking a toll on me and it hurts her.
She also metioned that sometimes she feels like she needs space - I get the feeling that by showing her affection or doing helpful things for her it makes her feel bad.
She is also a somewhat closed minded person. We started watching the marriage breakthrough DVD's this weekend and she said that is did not present anything new.
I guess for now I just have to be strong and patient with her but it is hard when we spend alot of time together. I need reassurance but she can't really offer any right now. I need to stop all R talks unless she wants to talk. It is so easy to type what you need to do but much harder to follow through with it. It is really hard to see any positives now for us???
I also ordered the KLA DVD's - do you think it would be better to watch them at this stage then the marriage breakthrough ones? Thanks so much for your help.
