Actually she read the 5LL book after we got married and tried to get me interested in it. At the time I really did not think that it was important - pretty stupid. I have read the book since and know that her LL is words of affirmation. I think that I am doing a good job of giving her what she needs now while trying to not add any pressure.
I ordered one of the DVD's sets from here so maybe that will help. Sometimes I think that she is expecting too much from her own feelings toward me - if that makes sense.
