Quote: I want to make sure that things are clear though - if he is planning on attempting to build a new R with possible re-marrying than we would have to start as a whole new couple - dating first and then progressing to being physical again. If he wants F only then there will be no sex (it will be damn hard because I crave him but I got to be strong so I don't do damage to myself...and him coming to think of it).
I really like what you said here. I think that shows a lot of respect for you. It also goes along the lines of Love Must Be Tough. If this happens, then you will finally have some control of the outcome. You do not have to let H take you for granted and just please himself.
