Well that was a very interesting night you had. Was this normal for H to initiate R talk (at least reinitiate it...when you went to bed)? Sounds as if H is totally confused right now, but that you are on the road to moving on. Do you believe what he said about no hope for your marriage? I dont know what I would think of such a deep R talk and then him wanting to fool around. Of course I would jump at the chance to get close to H in the bedroom department but he is totally sending mixed messages. How are you feeling about what he said? Sorry so many questions, just trying to get a feel for what H normally does and what your thinking about the events that took place.
