Hey don't worry if you got shot down Crushed. Like you said you know when he is in the zone, nothing else matters. As long as he is asking for advice or your opinion, he is not ignoring you, you get a chance to be of help, and if he finishes the project, he may have time to get frisky !! Till then clean a closet, pack a box, keep the hot chocolate comin', cause baby its cold outside.
