I did send the exact message I posted here. I have not heard anything further.I waited till 2pm like I said so that was 3 hours (which as you all,know was a MAJOR thing for me to do) I did go to the courthouse today to get another set of D form papers. The ones I have are getting ratty cause I take 'em with me everyday.I found out that once you file you have to schedule the hearing,and they only hear 6-7 cases a day, but once you go to the hearing the divorce is final that day.
Anyway, I did what somone suggested in one of the posts,I saved H's text message, so whenever i feel the need to see one from him, I can go to that. And (depending on the circumstances)the next time i get a text , I will ignore it,and see what happens. I am usually in a damned if you do, damned if you don't situation with him, if I DON'T call he'll use it against me , if I do call him first he'll think its pressure/guilt. I have been really good about NOT contacting him. I did think it was funny that he wrote "is been a while since I talked to you". We spoke for 8 minutes on 1/12 , and I had seen him on 1/10 . Yet previously we went 25 days with no contact!! I think I am going with Molliew on this cause I had the exact same thought as soon as I read the text- he and OW are having a bad day, and gee I wonder if Sportster is still around. I know he had to increase his minutes to 1500 cause OW phone got smashed by her H. His calls to me are text or less than 8 minutes now. He probably needs to conserve the minutes so she can yammer at him. He is getting really busy he said last time, so hopefully she will be a major pain in the ass to him real soon!
I am having company all this weekend. My best friend from Colorado is coming to town, and I am cooking dinner Friday for her/hubby, and my sis/ Bil. We'll do something on saturday, and Sunday as well. H really likes my friend and her H , and I know if I told him he would definetly feel left out. That's ok by me.
Thanks to all for replying, I count on all of you so much for my sanity these days. I know I gotta get a grip. I used to be a strong person. This has really kicked my butt. If he was gonna call, it would be about 9pm. I'll let ya know if that happens. Hey, I can dream, right????
