I am getting on this way too late to make much of a difference in what you decide to do but I agree with Shawnl and not sending a text back to him even though it probably will kill you not to. You have been killing yourself wondering what he is doing take this opportunity to turn the tables on him a bit. I think it will end up helping you out in regards to how you feel about yourself, it gives you a little control in the sitch. I am not the wisest one on this thread so what I say might not make much difference but I still hope that it does.
Crushed,
Quote: She also compared DBing to looking at our spouses standing at the cliff waiting to fall back into our arms. We can't push them (we won't be there to catch) but we can chip away at the cliff until they fall off.
I don't think most of us have really put a visual to what we are trying to do. That quote makes a lot of sense in what we want to accomplish. Thank you for putting that on here. I hope that you find yourself in a much better place within yourself soon. I haven't had much input on your sitch but I feel for you and for what you have been going through. Your H doesn't know what he is missing.
