Looking back on the convos about NYE, my SIL said he was definetly not bringing her, but also never said he wasn't gonna be there.They never came out with any bogus info on their own, it was always in response to my inquiry. I did ask MIL where H was could sleep and she said the couch, and nephew would have the chair, So they already knew he was not going to be there, whern I went there on 12/18. Like I said I am hurt, but I am not angry. H hardly calls his Mom (or so she says, i don't know what to believe now) but I definetly know he hardly ever calls his sister. I know they care about me ,and they did say a while back that they still see me as family SIL says i am more like her sister. She does believe H took the wimpy way out in all of this, instead of just saying he wasn't in love with me or bored with our lives, or just didn't wanna be married, he blamed it all on me and all the crap from forever-ago. I am sorry you are on the cold side of the bed again, but at least you were prepared for it, and sometimes that makes it hurt a little less. And sorry your IL are giving you the silent treatment. I have known mine for almost 30 years, so it would be like my own family shunning me.I would die. Although, i may have to deal with that on some level if H marries OW.I am sure OW is very nice person or H would not even looked at her in the first place. And I am sure she will be charmimg to MIL/SIL when they meet. I hate the thought of being replaced. I know this kind of thing happens all the time in life, but it shouldn't be happening to us . Not again. .
