Good point, definitelly true in your and sportster situations but not mine. My MIL as well as FIL lied to me about not knowing that my SBXH was heavily involved (even if it's just an EA) with OW from work. That was not the point though - what disappointed me was the fact that several days before them telling me all that, MIL requested a PICTURE of OW to be e-mailed to my FIL's e-mail account. I think that crossed the line. It's different knowing about and not talking (yeah, they probably did not want me to hurt, they wanted to probably give me an illusion that there is still hope) but requesting infor and visual aids on someone that is replacing the WIFE of their son (step son for my FIL) is just too much, too disrespectful, too messed up IMHO.
