I guess I will have to look into that book. I'm finding out more and more that I had no clue what men wanted. My H was my first and when I think about my previous flings - I really did nothing to sustain them. I was really passive to the point of...hm...stand offish? I have to learn to speak the Male lingo now that I might be single again. Not something I wanted to do in this stage of my life (the need for it that is) but better late than never!
