My H has not gotten really angry and we haven't thrown things or had a drag out fight. I guess he considers himself above all that. If he shows any real emotion, then it would mean that he still cares and he can't show that. He is behind all this now and moving on. In a different place, blah blah blah, you get the picture. I have to think he is in a little denial because I just don't think it is that easy. But maybe I'm wrong, maybe he is one of those guys who it is that easy for.
I believe my H was taken over by an alien too sometimes. How can someone go from saying they love you and being with you all the time to not wanting to be around you. Where was that need they had before? Don't they miss you at all? If my H does, he sure doesn't show it. He is all smiles and helpful behavior. Sometimes it makes me want to puke. And I reciprocate of course, smiles and helpful behavior. I am torn between wanting to be nice so I can show him things can be better to wanting to show him that it shouldn't be this easy and he can't get off scott free. Tough decision to make and I still haven't decided. That is why I need some professional help, I think. When my counselor said "from the little I've read about marriages", I knew I was in trouble. Thank goodness I only went to him twice. Too bad he wasn't better because he took my insurance and was cheap.
