Two things- I was right about OW being back in town and that was the reason why my SBXH HAD to go to work. Yup, I did slip and checked his phone - there were two txt message from her but he erased the ones he sent to her. Getting smarter? Maybe.
My L meeting was okay. We did the "case information" papers and he called his L to find out what is the hold up with the settlement agreement. Turns out that he will be mailing it out today so my guy will have it by Tue next week. Once he mails me a copy I'll make an appt and will go over it. I have a "phone hearing" with judge on Jan 25th (some new thing that they are doing to see where the things are at). I asked my L about how long before the D will be final once the settlement agreement is agreed on. He said that it might even be just a week. Hm...interesting. Also, turns out that we don't have to actually separate before the D. I don't want my SBXH to screw my credit report and I really need to make sure that I"m off the mortgage one way of the other before moving out. So that is another thing I have to ponder.
