It's hard to get to that point where we feel it's not worth it anymore, or it's done and there is no hope. From what I've read on the boards, this is the time that holds the most promise. Letting go allows us to heal, to move on and GAL. I still want my M, but I can see that until I let go, I will continue to appear weak and needy to my W. Only by letting go can I find the strong person I was when she fell for me.
For the two of you, it may not feel like it at times, but you are now in the power position in the R. You've let go. You're thinking of what's next. Your S's may not have reacted yet, but give it time. There's no hurry is there? Remember that for some reconciliation comes after the D. So take heart and do good things to build yourselves up.
I know, you may now accuse me of being the eternal optimist.LOL
ShawnL
So if you're tired of that same old story, turn some pages. I'll be ready when you are able, to roll with the changes. - REO Speedwagon
