Sun, if you go back to my WAITING thread it will tell you in details what happened when he came back. To summarize though - we had sex (kissing and all that), he told me he missed me on the Xmas day the most, that he is feeling that he needs to take charge etc. NOTHING about the status of our M - no indication (verbally) that he might be rethinking. When he went to work next day he dropped off another gift for OW except that she was sick and was not in. She was also not in the NYE and even though he was sick he HAD to go (I guess hoping he'll meet up with her before her trip to Dominican Republic). He txt messaged her that he is already missing her (before she even left) so that shows me that he is still incredibely involved and pursuing full force. The last time we had sex was last Tuesday morning when he decided to stay home to "relax" and it was my day off as well (he knew that). So there....no clue.