He filed the petition for D almost months ago. It was acknowledged by my L and the answer was sent on Dec 13th. Since my H is going for extreme mental cruelty (I don't agree) the answer denied his claims. Now I'm waiting for settlement agreement which will allow me to move out protected, so to answer your question: yes, we are still under the same roof and to make things even more bizzare, I decided to move back to the "big bed" because I'm not going to freeze my butt off in the guest bedroom (corner) just because HE is more comfortable. So we've been sleeping in the same bed for the past 2 weeks.
Your situation is different. Your H tells you he is working on the R and still seeing OW - that IS cheating and infidelity. You just can't do it! My SBXH has no desire to try and work on M or at least he made no such indication. Is it because he is still trying to sow his wild oats and it's easier for him (etically) to do it when making me feel that there is nothing between us until he figures out who he really wants, or is it because there really is NOTHING.
