Quote: Nobody wants to continue doing an activity when you know the person you are with does not have much enthusisam for the activity.
I agree.
Quote: Almost all LD's create an atmosphere where when you ML, it feels like they are fullfilling some obligation. My wife may be willing, I will "USE" here when she is willing, and then feel like crap for what went on.
Almost all HDs create an atmosphere where, if you are not ML or wanting to ML, or you have not made it plain that you are going to reward them with LM for sharing their precious time with you, any activity you are doing with your spouse is worthless, meaningless, and a waste of their time.
