Quote: This is so very sad, because I see the HD side so very clearly.
But, OTOH, I have a body that only sporadically experiences true horniness, and in the absence of that, I can only offer up my willingness, and I can offer only so much of that if my needs aren't getting met.
Dunno....
Corri
Does your H know that he is killing your love? Does he know that the most precious thing in his life is going away and might never come back? Maybe you control the sex: does he know that he controls the love? He is not comfortable verbally expressing his love for you, but he doesn't understand how hard it is for you to make love to him when he throws words of affection around like they are manhole covers. There must be a place inside of you where you wonder if he really loves you.
I lay in bed next to my wife and she's a million miles away. It feels like absolute zero. I killed her love a long time ago, and I don't know if it will ever come back. If your husband knew what was at risk, maybe he would change.
SM
P.S. I apologize for the tone of my posts. My brain is addled with insomnia and a sentimental novel that I'm reading
"If we will be quiet and ready enough, we shall find compensation in every disappointment." Henry David Thoreau