Quote: Ooops...sorry, I started making this about me.
No, please continue. I understand everything that you (and my H) are saying. I tend to go with GGB on his 'higher level' intimacy/R, to which, I thought, we were getting closer... but then convos like last night happen and I think I must be kidding myself.
This is so very sad, because I see the HD side so very clearly.
But, OTOH, I have a body that only sporadically experiences true horniness, and in the absence of that, I can only offer up my willingness, and I can offer only so much of that if my needs aren't getting met.