I'm beginning to think that there is a deeper level of intimacy available in marriage, but it takes a lot of work on BOTH PARTNER's parts to get there. If you can achieve that connection, the LD/HD is not the issue it is now. I've only got an inkling how to get there, but my recent experience (glimpses anyway), as well as what NOP's have posted seem to indicate that once you get there the differences between HD and LD become superfluous. Part of it, I think, is baring and sharing your souls to one another, part is letting go of the quest for physical nirvana and instead pursuing a whole connection. Anyway, it sure gives me hope. I suspect HP is also starting to see glimpses of this too.
