Maybe that's why I can get away with "baby, I just want to lean you over the counter and f*ck your brains out" works. She's not going to be any less in the mood regardless of my approach. If she had a natural ability to become aroused by external stimuli - sweet talk etc. then she'd probably tell me what actually turns her on. I've asked her about 30 times last year "what turns you on?" and have yet to hear an answer.

man, I need to get off this site...it makes my anxiety skyrocket...our best months were when I wasn't posting here. talking this crap only fuels "negative predictions" and the preservation of the old marital system. wow. good thing I'm headed back to my C monday.

-dave (whose not immune to the mob mentality on this site)

Anywhere is walking distance if you have the time -Steven Wright