Corri, do you ever ML when you don't want to just because you love him and want to do something nice for him?
Isn't this what the NOP's talk about-- you both have to show up BECAUSE YOU LOVE EACH OTHER, even if the LD person doesn't really feel like it right then, and even if the HD person wants to, but is so tired of initiating all the time that they would rather MB? You both show up for each other because you love each other.
Do you do that? (Not being cheeky... I can't remember if you've you said you do this or not...)
