Quote: ---------- I think your H has been telling you he wants some spontaneity, want to sometimes be able to make a request that seems a little over the top and have it be fullfilled. Kind of a fantasy come true. I'd even venture that he'd probably get pretty turned on by you making some over the top request of him. ----------
I won't argue that IF Corri's husband is 'just' wanting some fantasy loving, or makes a simple request of her for a certain sexual act, that it is an unreasonable request.
I do take strong issue with his attitude of entitlement. I also believe that this was the key issue in Corri's response to her husband.
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.