Quote: Your H comes out the other day and tells you, "our sex life sucks", "you control our sex life".
For some reason though, you don't hear him. You may not feel you control your SL, but your H obviously feels you do. Do you ever ask yourself why he feels that way?
LD's ALWAYS control the marriage because they control the SEX! This is a REAL sore spot with the HD. How do you ever get out of this rut? Beats me.
Quote: I think your H has been telling you he wants some spontaneity, want to sometimes be able to make a request that seems a little over the top and have it be fullfilled. Kind of a fantasy come true. I'd even venture that he'd probably get pretty turned on by you making some over the top request of him
If the HD and LD can BOTH master this, your well on your way to a PM!
