You handle yourself with such dignity and self control. I wish Nop could speak to your H and knock some sense into him. I picture a basketball game where your H is committing flagrant fouls, then throwing his hands up and saying " not me". You have come so far and I know you will stay strong. I still think my idea to talk to a MC is a good one; I know you know what will be said, but an outside person may be able to get through to your H ( I am thinking a male therapist with a tough talk approach).
