JustJenny:

I was lured into this relationship BY her BJ's (as well as other things). She seemed to LIKE giving me BJ's for the first 4 years of our relationship. She would give them to me in the car while driving down the freeway. All of my most memorable sexaul experiences with her are BJ's. Several years into our marriage, she decides she no longer likes to do it and says it is yucky. So now, when we do have sex, I give her all kinds of foreplay and variety, then she rolls over and gives my just plain old sex. So I know she can give good BJ's, why on earth would it be so gross to her now? A passionate marriage requires VARIETY, for BOTH partners.