Corri {{{{{{{{hugs to you}}}}}} --------------------------------------------------------------------- As I layed in bed in my rather stunned silence, I realized that I was also at peace, in a strange sort of way. I don't feel guilty, I don't feel like a failure, I don't feel defeated. If nothing else, I have exhonorated myself of responsibility for his half of the relationship -------------------------------------------------------------------
corri, If I were your H, in a couple of days some of this (the conversation you had with him) would sink in especially if I got a small hug or two in the next couple of days. Give the hugs just to let him know you want a R with him. Not the old R but one that you can live with. Also tell him you like a,b,and c but not d.
BTW, I think you did a great job telling your H not to dodge the issue you wanted to talk about. My W brings up all kinds of side issues when we have our R talks. Nothing gets solved.
OG Lou. "Just the facts Mam" Dragnet TV {{My H is having an affair. With his job.}} I plead guilty corri
