I am not defending his actions. He agreed to not release and yet he did. That was wrong. However, I was just trying to point out how men can feel about BJ's. What I don't understand is how women believe that it is OK to NOT FINISH the job. Can you imagine a man giving his wife head up until 2 seconds before orgasam, and then backing off and maybe finishing with fingers? My wife would KILL me if I did this. As we get into it, she grabs my head and pulls me real tight until the orgasam ends. So why should men not get the same respect and treatment? I will also say that not all sex is equal. What I mean is that ORAL sex is FAR mor important and pleasurable to some of us guys then vaginal sex. Heck if I were to rate different kinds of sex acts, then vaginal sex is one of the lower ones on the list. Sex is truly a MIND game, it is all about how you PERCEIVE the event. And Oral sex is really high on the PERCEPTION of it. I think sometimes that LD people get caught up to much in trying to do the physical act and never really understand the mindframe of sex.
