I haven't had a BJ in 2+ years. About 6 months ago, my wife began to do so at my request, but then nearly yanked herself away, and cringed saying, "I just can't do this! Can we just have sex?"
Corri, your husband does not appreciate the woman he has in you, and I think he needs to be told that. To unload in your mouth after you already told him you didn't want that is a VERY disrespectful thing to do.
