I know you are trying to help and I appreciate the effort.
Quote: I love to do ANYTHING for my wife, I LOVE to give her head to the point of her squirming all around as I try to hold her to my face.
See... to me this sounds like you are disregarding what she may possibly want for what YOU prefer while giving head. Her wants/wishes/desires don't even enter into your thought process. I think you could be projecting YOUR OWN wants/wishes/desires onto your wife, and leaving absolutely no room whatsoever for her to be her.
Quote: Men want the same in return. Sharing a load of semen with the wife is the ULTIMATE form of intimacy. Reject his penis (or semen) and you REJECT him.
CeMar, I'm sorry, this statement to me is so outside the bounds of rational thinking, I don't even know where to begin. Just because this is YOUR defining moment of ultimate intimacy does not make it so for all of the world.
Just so you know, I have no aspirations of becoming HD. I like me just as I am, and if you ever, ever, ever get beyond the complaint stage, I think you will gradually come to see that a loving, intimate relationship has nothing to do with HD/LD.
Quote: This is in effect the way he is evaluating your desire for him.
Ah. So having his penis in my mouth counts for nothing unless I swallow a load.
