Corri said: ------------ Saw the girlfriend out... hmmm.... before New Year's... but this recent bout of his behavior seems to have followed that night out. ------------
It really doesn't matter how old or long ago affairs happened. While time does reduce the impact, old 'lovers' are the most dangerous.
When you talk to hubby, don't tell him that you intend to snoop.
I think that you must snoop, though. If you don't and something comes up later after you have decided to trust blindly, you will be hurt much worse. We all have limitations, you must recognize his, as well as your own.
Please keep me posted if you can. -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
