Maybe I was not clear; this isn't something that happened like... months ago. All this happened in 1996. EA is long gone and over. No contact. Nothing. Nada. 1996 was a very dark, dark year in the Corri household. After all this, we spent... sheesh... YEARS in MC. I asked H for a divorce in Oct. 2002... found SSM in April 2003... things had been steadily improving since then.
Saw the girlfriend out... hmmm.... before New Year's... but this recent bout of his behavior seems to have followed that night out.
I think I'll have a long discussion with H before I start detective work.
