However, people ARE most definitely themselves when drunk. It's just a side of them that you don't normally see. If you say that when he's drunk his ML style becomes like a porn movie, the forced swallowing may be a function of that, i.e., "she said she didn't want it, but secretly all women do."
I'm definitely not excusing it, but I'm not sure I'd go as far as NOP. Hope he's wrong, but you must take his informed opinion into account. Rats.
