If I'm just giving head, I always swallow because generally the head is too far into my mouth for anything other than swallowing to be natural. Basically, I don't even think about it.
If I'm giving head combined with a hand-job, I might not swallow because if my head is facing down, some ends up in your mouth, but some dribbles out. Actually, I sometimes like playing porn star and doing the trick where I make a point of catching it with my mouth a couple inches away from the head. Kind of like drinking from a water fountain. I find it erotic and amusing at the same time.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
Corri... You crack me up. Before I clicked on your post, I thought to myself..."Oh, it's a topic from Corri; I better put on my thinking cap."
Anyway, I am interested in knowing what prompted the question.
My H really enjoys oral as foreplay but it's rarely the main event. I am not adverse to swallowing if he really wanted me to, but it's not my preference.
I will...depending upon the circumstances and my mood. However, I haven't done that yet with my H (although almost did last night)...he's never allowed that to happen yet. But when I told him last night that I would do that...he definitely raised an eyebrow. It's as if it never crossed his mind that I'd be willing.
If you really want to raise an eyebrow, catch it in your mouth and then give it back to him with a kiss.
I initially learned how to give head by reading Cosmopolitan magazine when I was a teenager. The first guy that I gave head to practically asked me to marry him he was so grateful(He dumped me later when he discovered my "real" age. I was quite the instigator of statuatory rape law violations in my youth. ) so I decided that I enjoyed doing it.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
My technique came from learning how to sing. All those singing exercises taught me how to "open my throat" and "breath deep and let it out slowly". Not to mention a the effect of a high C on the proceedings . In my twenties, I read in Playgirl that stopping at a crucial moment and starting several times can give a man multiple orgasms. H is too goal oriented to allow me to experiment on him. Swallowing will cum as a gift on our 10th anniversary. I will be encouraging my H to eat lots of pineapple that previous week, as I have heard that eating pineapple can sweeten the taste.
I don't mind the sun sometime
The images it shows
I can taste you on my lips
And smell you in my clothes
Cinnamon and Sugar
And softly spoken lies
You never know just how you look
Through someone elses eyes
BHS-"Pepper"
I've swallowed once. I don't know if it is a regional thing...I'm from the south or just a generational thing (I'm 52) but I had no idea guys even expected girls to swallow until I was nearly thirty and I started dated this guy from Denver. He told me he had not had a decent "head job" since he moved south. He said southern girls wouldn't swallow.
I made up my mind to give him his first decent, southern head job. I swallowed...attempted to swallow I should say. I don't know what that boy had been eating but I ended up gagging over the toilet. The minute his cum hit the back of my throat it was like an explosion and everything in my stomach started coming up. The taste of it was horrendous. What an experience!! My last attempt at swallowing also.
Shortly there-after I married my ex and he never made an issue of it. I asked him once didn't he want me to swallow and he said, "Why the hell would I ask you to swallow something I wouldn't swallow myself?" With us it was always foreplay and that suited me fine cause after that first experience I was a bit afraid I would humiliate us both by gagging.
Quote: "Why the hell would I ask you to swallow something I wouldn't swallow myself?"
I think this is my bf's attitude (and has been the attitude of past partners). Fortunately no one has ever made it a measure of my caring or sexiness or anything.
) so I decided that I enjoyed doing it.