TAG, that's exactly right. You must take your emotions out of it. I'll get back to you later with more. For now, about the flowers, I may be in the minority opinion here, but your W is not in a place to listen to you right now. She is not at a point where she is willing to work on the M yet. I would not send anything. I may send something to your D though. That would be nice. It's your call. I've decided not to send anything to my H from me, but I am going to have my S2 make him a card from him. It's all about whether or not your W and my H would see it as pursuing and I think they would.
