A thread for TAGIII

[SolidMechanic]

So am I making progess returning home and letting her emote while I validate her feelings or should I stay away?
Help?

If you want to do anything constructive with your marriage, you have to be there. It's not just a matter of taking care of issues like car repair. That's small potatoes compared to what you need to do - which is to show her that you love her and to be willing to listen to her. You can't do that living in a different city.

I know finding another job close to home that will support you and your family in the manner to which you all are accustomed will be difficult. If your W was fully committed the two of you could talk about selling the house and relocating. But under the current circumstances, I think your only options are getting whatever job you can back home, or cutting your losses with your wife. You can't love her from where you are.

P.S. Anyone know how I can rename this thread and move it to another forum?

Just start a new thread on the other forum and post a link to the other thread here, and likewise, a link in your new thread to the old thread here. If you don't know how to do that, just start the new thread on the other forum, and post here where your new thread is going. I will post the links for you.

SM